How to eat someone out – or lick someone out – really well
How to eat someone out – or lick someone out.
Eating out a
girl is a sexual
skill that can make or break a woman’s
perception of you. If done well, it will compensate for the lack of pretty much
anything else in the bedroom. And if done poorly, it will leave a woman wanting
for more. If done patiently and sensuously, this can bring a woman to multiple
and visibly convulsive orgasms. If done hurriedly, it will leave a… bad taste in her mouth. But eating pussy is
eating pussy, right? What’s there to it?
A whole lot,
Because you are
dealing with the most sensitive part of a woman’s body. It can be physically
hurtful if you apply the slightest bit of extra pressure. It can be awkward if
you repeatedly miss the spot. And it can seem immature if your tongue ventures
where your fingers should.
In other words, eating
out a girl is an art. And since they don’t
make masterclasses on subjects that really interest us, here is a ready
reckoner on giving exceptional oral sex to women; how to approach it, caress it
and play with it.
ORAL SEX TIPS ON
HOW TO EAT A GIRL OUT
1. KISS AND CARESS AS YOU APPROACH
straight down under. Take a slow approach from the top, kissing and caressing
and tracing the way with the tip of your tongue. And don’t take a straight
path. Go for as many detours as you fancy. Go close to the pussy and then go
back up. Go down kissing but leave the clitoris and go for her thighs. Inner
thighs are one of the most closely-guarded female erogenous zones. Kiss and
softly bite her inner thighs. Kiss and lick the spot behind her knees. Go close
to the clitoris and hold it back. If you do it sensuously, by now, she will be
begging you to eat her out.
2. SOFTLY LICK THE CLITORIS – AND NEARBY AREAS
most sensitive part of her body. So, as you
approach it, be as gentle as possible. Softly lick the surrounding areas in
gentle strokes. Do not go full throttle at the clitoris yet. Take your time and
get her all warmed up. When you finally start licking the clitoris – and if you
are wondering what it is, it’s that bean-like thing at the top of the vagina –
don’t do it forcefully. Do not prod or stab with the tip of your tongue.
vertical strokes, up and down. Do not suck it or gulp it in the beginning.
Stroke it for a while and then when she tells you through her moans that she’s
loving it, go for horizontal strokes over her clitoris. Many women claim this
gets them to orgasm faster than anything else. No matter what, remember this:
No biting the clitoris.
a thumb rule: Fingers go inside, the tongue goes outside. This is true for most
of the women. They don’t like it when the fingers grab the clitoris and the
tongue tries to awkwardly make its way inside. When you are eating her
clitoris, your fingers shouldn’t be on holiday. They should be gently working
her from inside. Move your fingers to her G-Spot (a bit higher up behind the
vaginal wall), curl them and gently stroke. Do it as you lick and kiss her
4. Get feedback
and adjusting your manoeuvers is how you perform well both in office and in the
bedroom. If she doesn’t seem to respond to your moves, ask her whether you are
doing it right. If she tells you to go slow, you go slow. There’s nothing more
unnerving than someone who doesn’t listen. If she doesn’t like you sucking her
clitoris, stop right then and there. If she wants you to insert one more
know what to do.
5. GET OUTSIDE HELP
We mean toys.
There are plenty of toys that can be creatively added to your oral sex regimen.
The key here is to have a discussion with her prior to the act. Do not surprise
her by taking out something unpleasant and scary while you are down under. If
you are going with a dildo or a vibrator, ensure that they are thoroughly
cleaned and lubricated.
6. GIVE IT A BREAK
pleasures don’t peak and plummet like those of guys. They come as beautiful
waves. Ask her whether she would like to take a break. And once she’s ready,
she’ll let you know. Then you go back to eating her out and giving her mind-blowing