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20 Amazing Psychological Facts About LOVE

20 Amazing
Psychological Facts About LOVE



1. It only takes up to 4 minutes to decide whether you like someone or not.

If you want to
make a good impression on someone, then you only need about 4 minutes to
complete. People think that this has a lot to do with your body language,
intonation, and voice speed, rather than exactly what you say.


2. When two lovers stare into each other’s eyes,
their heart rhythms are synchronized.

An extraordinary
study found that couples who love each other and maintain a romantic
relationship will synchronize their heartbeats after staring at each other for
three minutes.


3. Falling in love has an effect on the nervous
system similar to cocaine.

Falling in love
is like taking a dose of cocaine, because both affect the brain in similar ways
and trigger a similar euphoria. Studies have found that falling in love will
produce several euphoric chemicals and stimulate 12 areas of the brain at the
same time.


4. Embrace the release of natural painkillers.

Oxytocin, the
so-called love or hug hormone, is produced during the hug. The hormone appears
in the brain, ovaries and testes and is thought to be involved in the process
of sex. Studies have found that a certain dose of oxytocin can significantly
reduce headaches and even make the pain disappear completely after 4 hours.
Before using chemicals and pills to relieve pain, it is definitely worth trying
to hug others.


5. Couples that are too similar to each other cannot
last for long.

As the saying
goes, opposites attract. Research proves that this part is correct. Couples who
are too similar or too different tend not to last long. Obviously, there must
always be a basis for similarity, but there must also be something you two
learn from each other.


6. People in love have chemical similarities with
obsessive-compulsive disorder patients.

Studies have
shown that people in the early stages of love have lower levels of serotonin,
which is related to happiness; while higher levels of cortisol are related to
stress. This is very similar to people with obsessive-compulsive disorder,
which explains why we behave out of place when we fall in love with someone. It
can also be counterproductive-people with lower serotonin levels fall in love
and enter into sexual relationships faster than others.


7. Attachment + care + intimacy = perfect love.

The triangle
theory of love provides clear formulas for the components of different kinds of
love. Three different kinds of love are the product of two different basic
components: romantic love = passion + intimacy, accompanying love = intimacy +
commitment, and greasy love = passion + commitment.

Of course, the
most real and strongest is perfect love, which consists of all three
components.


8. People say
that trust is very important in a relationship. However, this is a wrong
concept. Time is the most important. As time goes by, the trust, friendship and
inseparable relationship between your partner and you will grow closer.


9. Trying to
ignore the people you like is like trying to make strangers know you again. You
will never remember the person you never met. Likewise, you will not be able to
ignore the people you like.


10. Talkative
girl and silent boy are the best couples.


11. Men fall in
love faster than women. Women spend 15 days, men spend 8 seconds.


12. Unexpected
and unplanned love stories will last longer.


13. When a man
likes a girl, he will look into her eyes. When a girl likes a man, she will
look away.


14. A woman who
makes him “like a man” is the
woman that man likes.


15. A man with a
big belly is less attractive to women.


16. Men with a
deeper voice can attract or impress
women more than men with a higher voice.


17. People tend
to choose symmetrical faces in their partners because people unconsciously
think that they have better genetics.


18.
Psychologically speaking, it is impossible for you to be angry with the person
you really love. If your angry mood lasts for more than 3 days, it means that
you do not really love him.


19. People are
most likely to
break up in a relationship of three to five months.


20. In
relationships, boys usually start to take the first step, but if a girl chooses
to pursue you proactively, please cherish her, she is loving you with her
dignity and life.

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